The Truth About Men, From a Man Who Listens.
I am not a dating coach. I am a business mentor who has spent 25 years in closed rooms with the most successful men in the world. I know what they say when you aren't listening.
Releasing on September 22 2026
Stop Reading the Tea Leaves.
The "Blue Bubble" Anxiety
You spend hours analyzing his texts. Why did he take 3 hours to reply? Why is his tone different? Here is the truth: A man who texts you back instantly all day has no mission. You say you want a successful man? Let him work.
The "Superstar" Mirage
You want the guy who lights up the room. But the Superstar is a guest in his own home. He requires an audience, not a partner. Stop trying to compete for his spotlight and start looking for the man who wants to build a life with you.
The "Nice Guy" vs. The Good Man
A "Nice Guy" is nice because he is weak. A "Good Man" is dangerous, capable, and powerful—but he keeps it under voluntary control. You don't want nice. You want good. I’ll teach you the difference.
Intel. Not Advice.
One Good Man isn't another "manifest your soulmate" guide. It is a tactical briefing derived from 30,000 hours of conversations with business owners, executives, and leaders.
Inside, you will discover:
The Integration Test: The one simple way to know if he sees you as a partner or a pastime.
The "I Need Space" Translation: What he actually means when he pulls away (and why chasing him makes you "The Storm").
The 3 Traits of a Good Man: Why "Status" isn't one of them.
How to End It: A complete guide to breaking up with dignity and stopping the ghosting cycle.
Who is Matt Fitzsimmons?
I am the "Biz Doctor." For two decades, I have fixed broken companies and coached broken CEOs across eight countries.
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But when the boardroom doors close, these men don't talk about profit margins. They talk about you. They talk about their loneliness, their confusion, and their desire for a woman who is a "Safe Harbor," not another storm to manage.
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I wrote this book because I was tired of seeing good women crying over "Superstars" while rejecting the "Steves" who would have given them the world. It’s time to level the playing field.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this book just for single women?
No. While it is essential for single women navigating modern dating, the chapters on communication ("The Translation") are a manual for any woman who wants to understand her husband or partner better.
How is this different from other dating books?
Most dating books are written by psychologists or "pickup" artists. One Good Man is written by a business confidant. It is raw data from the male perspective, unfiltered and direct.
When will the book be released?
One Good Man launches worldwide September 22 2026. Pre-order now to secure the launch price.
Bought this expecting the usual self-help waffle. Didn't get that. Got uncomfortable truths and actual insights instead. Finished it, sat with it for a week, then changed how I approach dating entirely. Six months later, I'm engaged to someone I would have completely overlook before."
Patricia R.
University Professor
"Okay so I was totally ready to hate this book. Another man telling women how to get a man, great, just what we need. But it's not that. It's more like... someone finally explaining what's going on istead of what we wish was going on. I've read it twice."
Ashley M.
Veterinarian
"I was six months into a relationship when I read this. Realised I was dating a Superstar and calling it love. Ended it. Cried for a week. Best decision I've made in years. Now with someone who actually shows up. Thanks, I think."
Samantha L.
Brand Strategist